You are in a Relationship, one month, six months, one year, two years, then Suddenly you are calling, he’s not picking.
He just woke up one day and told you it’s over, you two didn’t quarrel, there was no fight and then, you ask yourself this question
“Why did he leave me?”:
Here are the reasons he left you:
1) IT WASN’T MEANT TO BE:
Not every Courtship will lead to Marriage.
You may both love each other, but have it in mind that some relationships will actually end for no reason whatsoever. Let it go. God’s ways are bigger and more presised than our ways.
2. YOU WERE TOO DESPERATE:
You just met him few days back, he is yet to ask you out and you are already calling him sweet or romantic names, referring to him as your husband and even reffering to his mother as your Mother-in-law. You make it a routine to call him morning, afternoon and night. Who says things works that way? Allow the man to do the chasing and give him some space, men run from women that seem too desperate.
3. YOU JUST ESCAPED A DEADLY MARRIAGE or RELATIONSHIP.
Do you know that some breakups are deliverances in disguise?
God works in mysterious ways, sometimes even after all we do and how careful we are, some Relationships don’t work, because it would have been a disaster or deadly.
4) YOU’VE GIVEN HIM ALL HE WANTED FROM YOU, HE SEES NO NEED TO SAIL FURTHER WITH YOU:
When you become sick, you go to a hospital and get treated immediately right? After you are well again, what do you do next? You have to stop going to the hospital. Some women doesn’t know the difference between real love and lust, build love first.
He asked you out, you accepted, he asked for sex, you willingly gave him. Just like that?
Now he’s no longer picking your calls and you are worried. Think no further, a sick man has just been discharged from the hospital. Yeah!
Sex and beauty alone can’t keep a man, if it does, there would be no divorces. Every thing you have, other ladies have it too, so he probably left to where he will get the full package, beauty, brain and content.
5) YOU WEREN’T ADDING TO HIS LIFE :
This happens when you make yourself a liability to a man, nothing good to offer.
Ladies who know what they can bring to the table will always be needed by men. When
you don’t add to his life in any way,
Spiritually, Financially and intellectually,
all you do is ask and collect, he will definetely leave.
No Man wants to marry a liability.
6} BAD BEHAVIOUR :
Some ladies acts like angry birds, so disrespectful, rude, nagging and ungrateful, yet you don’t want to work on yourself. No man in his right senses will like to manage or settle with a lady that has a very bad attitude. He will leave, even if he tries to manage you, he will one day find a better alternative.
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